Archive - August 2025

Going slow

I’m conscious of the benefits of going slowly enough in a coaching relationship to allow the coaching client the time and space to be able to surface what’s actually going on for them – to begin to perceive at a deeper level, and also to develop the trust in themselves (and in me) to be able to express it. The work culture that many of us are familiar with celebrates speed, being busy (albeit not necessarily productive) and doing. This culture encourages us to race on and get as much done as we can. This race doesn’t allow space for the underpinning, important information to emerge. Maybe we need to be engaging in not-thinking, not-doing – but in being – in becoming aware of a wider and deeper landscape than the immediate task. A landscape that will reveal and illuminate more. My being in the slow lane, and my encouragement of clients to be there too, leads to benefits for both them and me. It means being conscious, in all senses of the word – not being carried along on any sort of tide without being aware of it, and choosing in awareness. And it means continuing to grow.